I was talking the other day to Quinn's mom. We were discussing what having Ruby meant in our lives. She made a good point that I had never put into words before. She said that Ruby has probably freed you to see lila for what she is and except her for that and to enjoy her more. I think this is definitely true. I feel like I had gotten to a good place before Ruby was ever born, but she definitely frees me from being so sad about missing out on what Lila could have been. She helps me focus on just what Lila is, a beautiful little angel who is in our home for just a few short years.